Telling your son not to “be such a girl” lets his sister who overhears the conversation know that being a girl is not a good thing and she should be sorry and ashamed of herself.
It also reminds your son that being a boy is better than being a girl and therefore he is better than any girl he will ever meet.
In russian if you cry you get called a cabbage. Vote to change “dont be such a girl to “dont be such a cabbage” say I.
"be stubborn about your goals but flexible about your methods." the best advice I’ve ever received.
Tagged: #my head literally cant retain shit #i forget everything so fast #is kinda making me worried #i never experienced this before #but at the same is happening while i am shut down #so my feels doesnt really care about anything? #so i dont know pretty much nothing #life is a mess #that ic ant fix yet #because there are things greater and bigger than everything i miss to feel #sis mahli i miss u